Graduates - 3 Steps to Dealing with Failing Your Exams

By Sergeant Killjoy

1. Panic !!!!

2. Realise panicking doesn't help.

3. Figure out your next step

Whether you are celebrating or commiserating, or even still in limbo awaiting final results, there's bound to be some pretty strong emotions that are stirred up right now.  So - congratulations to you if you passed!  Or it could be that you unexpectedly failed your exams, or that the results weren't quite as good as you needed them to be. And how do you cope with the tension of waiting for the results right now?

First of all, its worth remembering that when you first receive your results, if you have failed or not got the results you wanted, that there may will be a range of very powerful emotions including  anger, depression and sometimes denial. Its important to give yourself a break if this does happen - yes of course you will feel upset, this is completely natural.

 a) Give yourself a few days to adjust to the news, and remember this may be doubly hard if your mates are celebrating their successes and you are not.

b) Try to surround yourself with supportive people, family, close friends and let off some steam.

c) Talk when you are ready to talk about it, and once the emotions die down, then it will be easier to see what the other options may be for you by speaking to your tutors, parents and career advisory department...

Passed?  Then congratulations - but what next?  The euphoria of passing may quickly be replaced by fear of the unknown,  and getting to grips with thinking about the 'real' world may be a bit scary!  Speak to your universitys career service if you are uncertain.

SO - will you

a)      Continue your studies

b)      Take a gap year before you start work

c)      Start writing your CV in readiness for finding work?  See my advice on writing a cv  and see our CV Checker  too

I will be writing about how to target potential employers in my next blog, but for now, I am keeping my fingers crossed for all those still awaiting results, best wishes for all of you!

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19 Comments

Sound advice.

Also, what about advice for the parents? my girls are leaving home now for university and I feel like a spare part, hence getting my new job!

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